Monday, March 26, 2012

........ the subjective word call LOVE

Today I thought I will dedicate sometime to write about the subjective word call LOVE. This is because my little angel is going through some colorful changes in her young teenager’s life, and I would not want to act as though I was never young before.

Honestly, I started to know the feeling of wanting to have an exclusive friendship with that certain someone at a very tender age of 12 or 13. It was a very uneasy feeling as your mind was occupied with the thought of that person more than you could handle, but the feeling drizzled off soon enough, and I learn the magical word of saying “next please”.

My little angel has been quite open in sharing her stories with me, but I am pretty sure that there are more hidden in that little head of hers. I am a very protective mother and I don’t want her to get hurt, not even if it was at the stage of learning what puppy love is all about.

Love is not about attraction to many, but to me that is not right. You have to be attracted to something to love it or him or her or whatever. They said love is not about infatuation, but I think it all started by being infatuated first. Love is not about gifts, but my little angel was smitten by a simple bar of chocolate given to her on a valentine day. Love is not about the length of time you spent together but how could that be?

So what is this thing call love? To each his own I guess, from the beginning I have stated that love is subjective. Bottom line, there is no right or wrong to anyone’s perception of love. We all fall in love; one way or the other, good or bad, there is really no reason at all to falling in love. It is just that stupid magical feeling that you want to belong.

In conclusion I can only say that it is wonderful having to wake up each day feeling so deeply in love and overwhelmingly happy whenever this person is around you.

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