Home Wrecker aka Husband Snatcher

Why do some women so shamelessly celebrate the winning of a home wrecking? Could it be that these women are so cheap, so ugly, so desperate that they can only attach themselves to none other than married men, because they were so worthless to be on the side of a single man? While these married men are so eager to have a cheap affair.

My girlfriend is currently swimming in the pool of helpless feelings due to the fact that she has to go through the painful acknowledgement of infidelity. I had accompanied her to face the other woman, it was not a peaceful situation, though she was trying hard to be as calm as possible, and the so called husband snatcher was shaking like crazy. The worse and sad truth was that the husband snatcher is the ugliest that anyone can imagine, and could hardly keep a good conversation in English, so, you ask what does he see in her?

Due to her husband’s infidelity, my girlfriend is a total mess now, she lost so much weight, became so short tempered, crying and laughing at the same time, and finding it very difficult to stay focused. She is so abused, resulting in the feeling of insecurity as well as worthlessness.

Her husband wanted to move out but does not want a divorce, or he will still stay with her but he will spend his weekends with the other woman. My girlfriend is left with no option but to cope. She knows that divorce can be painful and destructive. I had advised her to be realistic and patient, she has to know that time is her very best friend now.

We are hoping that this outside of marriage behavior and false paradigm by her husband is only a frivolous affair, and not something of a deep emotional thing. She is not willing to vacate the marriage for fear that it is a tremendous shame in her race and culture. Though she is very angry but she is still hoping that a positive solution will be the outcome.

For now I am keeping her company as much as I possibly can, helping her to cope by reminding her that she has to make time for herself, and to understand how important she is. So far so good, we went shopping and she had a total change of wardrobe, she changed her hair style, ate better food, and we also decided to learn Salsa. I have also tried asking her to come golfing with me, but she is still undecided.

The only thing that I can assure any woman is that no one can be too weak to survive this moment of pain. The challenge of trusting again after an infidelity will take time. It is not wrong to say that those who went through this dark dream will never fully get over it. But with sheer determination, you will not only survive but will also thrive.

You can count on me Girlfriend !!!