It's Complicated

Too often I see these words “In a relationship, and it’s complicated”, wait a minute, do you people even give yourself a thought before planting these words anywhere and everywhere? Or are you just blind foolish followers who enjoy copying and pasting without even a clue to the meaning of the words?

If you recon that relationship is complicated why bother going into one, why even open your heart to a relationship, don’t you think staying single and be by yourself is less complicated and, therefore, you don’t have to copy paste such wordings, and people wonder what’s up with you….. honestly!!!!

Life in its own is complicated, people are complicated, the world is complicated, why label a relationship complicated. A relationship is entirely your own, you make it work or you don’t make it work. It can only be complicated if you want to make it complicated, if you cannot compromise to a certain situation, if you are too selfish in recognizing that in any relationship there are more than one person involved. However, if you take everything at face value and work hard to make it work nothing is complicated. The world can be against you, but you are holding the compass to your relationship. In short do not let anyone influence you in your relationship, keep your mouth shut, and never ever hang your dirty laundry in the open, that way you will see that a relationship is a wonderful thing, as no one but you is in control.

So next time if you want to say that you are in a relationship and it is complicated, think again, have some dignity and realized that when you do this, it can only mean that you are inviting the world to come and laugh at you, and to scorn your decision on a relationship.

Be tactful and keep your secrets in the closet.